We all have a need for a “sense” of security and safety. That’s why betrayal, deceit, and secrets hurt so much. It shakes us causing us to feel unsafe.
Live in the shelter of God because there you will find rest. In His love you find security and safety.
If this is something you find yourself struggling with, I encourage you to read Psalm 91 from any version you easily can understand. Soak up this scripture.
Exchange your burden for His rest. It’s a trade worth making.